I
have been speaking with a lot of our community’s political leaders lately in
the aftermath of last month’s volcanic decision to smash the existing political
compact.
There
were many civic-minded citizens on both sides of the question of how best to
reform a Byzantine system of government that promoted nepotism, encouraged
inefficiency, rewarded mediocrity, and tolerated corruption. But the decision
was made in the crisis atmosphere that typifies much of our community
decision-making: winner-take-all snake-oil salesmen on one side and we-are-all
losers demagogues on the other.
The
voters were fed up, thanks to a tanking economy accompanied by blaring
headlines signaling widespread corruption. In our collective wisdom, amidst
despair over the economy and disgust with many of our politicians, we have
jumped into the treacherous waters of structural reform. Next up: selecting a
captain and a crew to steer our vulnerable county ship.
My
discussions about leadership with some of our most savvy and successful politicians
— including some at the top and several on the rise — have led me back home. I
want to talk about my mother.
Maybe
that’s because I write this on Christmas Sunday morning, an especially sacred
day in my household, and often the busiest day of the year. My father,
re-channeling his inner Oliver Wendell Holmes, had at age 40 been called to his
first pastorate by one of Cleveland’s oldest black churches, Mt. Zion
Congregational Church. My mother, a music professor at Howard University,
resigned her job and came to Cleveland with her husband and two grade school
children to start a new life in the bustling Midwest metropolis that 1953
Cleveland seemed to be. She was 38 and I had no idea that her earthly life was
more than 3/4 spent.
She
might have known that, however. Several years earlier, she had undergone a
double mastectomy, undergoing radical radiation that left scars and
disfigurement that I can still see. Radiation burns and extraordinary edema
notwithstanding, she was beautiful both inside and out.
The
church was in a precarious position. Its last pastor had moved onto a bigger
church in Chicago. The last church home had been sold and converted into a
nursing home by new ownership. Sunday service was held in two small meeting
rooms at the Cedar YMCA. The church office was down the street, sharing a suite
of rooms with a dental practice. The dentist was a church trustee who lived
upstairs from his practice. There was a parsonage in Glenville, with a huge
sycamore tree that dwarfed the two-cent postage stamp of a lawn.
And
there was a choir. It seemed to sing only dirges.
But
the church congregation was not without assets, primary among which was a core
of faithful members. These included several leaders who even in de facto
segregated Cleveland of the 1950s were accomplished professionals and community
leaders.
But
about that choir. My mother, Marjory J. Andrews, became the organist and choir
director sometime in that first year. Within no more than three years, she had
five choirs going, for everyone from preschoolers to the transformed Chancel
Choir. It was the latter where her impact was most dramatic. The Mt. Zion music
ministry became known throughout community. Its repertoire included
Tchaikovsky, Handel, Beethoven, and prominently featured brilliantly arranged
Negro spirituals.
On
the Sunday before Christmas, Mt. Zion Vesper Service began at 6pm. If you
weren’t there early you either had to stand in the back or along the sides, or
sit and hear through loudspeakers from an anteroom. Worshippers came from all
over, from Lakewood and Rocky River to Chagrin Falls.
My
soft-spoken mother was a totally dedicated, demanding, professional. She was
upbeat and optimistic, and she accepted no excuses for anything less than
excellence. Her approach began to attract some of the area’s best singers and
musicians, a process accelerated by the Church’s buying property in University
Circle and building a magnificent sanctuary.
The
choir included at least a dozen solo-quality singers, blended together in near
perfection with supporting voices. Members were schoolteachers, basketball
coaches, grad students, housewives, engineers, and probably a couple of roués.
They were black, white, straight, gay, young and seasoned.
Long
story short: I never thought of my mother as a leader, though clearly she was.
She was my mother. I did understand that professionally she was an accomplished
and dedicated musician who, despite the severe physical limits under which she
labored as a result of her cancer, always found the stamina to practice.
But
with half a century to figure it out, I realize that my mother was not just a
leader in her profession. She was a builder. And she worked with everybody. She
built an outstanding music program by focusing on the mission. She never sought
personal acclaim and did everything she could to enhance the ensemble over any
individual. And she found a place for everyone. If you couldn’t sing especially
well, maybe you could maintain the music library.
She
never assumed that your social status, skin color, or previous condition
established your talent or worthiness in support of the common endeavor. And
she never accepted that excellence and equity were incompatible.
I
could say more, but I hope the point is made. Cuyahoga is a venerable institution
with a rich history. We face daunting challenges that are both real and
spiritual. Our choir sings dirges. We have lots of talent, though we stifle
much of it.
We
seldom focus on excellence and equity as partners.
We
need builders who will focus on our joint mission to create a healthier
community and not worry about who gets the credit.
9 comments:
Wow! This is eye-opening, and one of the finest and most moving pieces of writing you've ever produced. I hope you do write that longer piece about your mom. I'd hungrily read every word.
What a beautiful piece, Richard. I have always wanted to write something about my mom who emigrated to this country from a beautiful place in the world, a village on the island of Crete filled with family and friends, to start a new life here in Cleveland where there was a distant relative who sponsored us, but little else. My folks had no money, never learned the language here and struggled financially their whole lives. She never really made the transition and suffered quietly her whole life, dying way too young of a strange lung ailment. She is with me every step of the way though, just like your mother is, and I tell my kids- who have no memory of her--about her every chance I get.
I like the fact that your mother involved everybody in the musuc program, even those with bad voices. My voice is so bad I think she would have had me parking cars in the parking lot!
Thank you both for your comments. They reinforce that old sensible advice to aspiring writers to write about what they know. John, I am sure I am but one of many area [national?] writers you have encouraged with your enthusiasm. It continues to mean a lot to me.
Jim, I have learned to be especially pleased and excited to people who may or may not be first-time readers, but are certainly first-time commenters. Much of the reward of writing comes from the sense of connection one gets from readers. There has to be feedback for the writer to know this.
I would encourage you to write about your mom, both for yourself as well as for your children and descendants.
Your comment about parking cars reminds me that when I attended Empire Jr High I won a part in a Gilbert & Sullivan musical [The Mikado]. My major song was beyond my comfortable 3 note range so my mom re-pitched it in a key I could handle.
Although she taught piano to neighborhood children, including the girl across the street who eventually became my brother's wife, she would never give me lessons. I think my preference for boogie-woogie offended her more refined sensibilities, or maybe she just knew I was chore enough without trying to make me practice.
Thank you so much for sharing this! I never knew this part of the family history. Please keep writing, Uncle Dick. You have much to say, and I would be grateful to read it.
Angie, What a delight to hear from you! You of course are a part of the family history, given that Marjory wrote a special piece for your mother's wedding. And you certainly know as a musician, about the discipline it takes. And given that you are home schooling six children, you probably at this point understand why my mother was wise to conserve her energy and never give me a lesson.
Of course, under your tutelage the Jones brood probably is ready to give the Jackson 5 a run for the money.
Lovely, done lovingly. I'm going to make sure Gloria sees this. You've covered a lot of ground in a few short paragraphs.
Thanks, Tim. Long time no talk. Hope to see more of you guys in 2010.
Mmm, Richard I believe there is a star in Heaven tonight sparking ever more brightly because of your beautiful piece revealing what true leadership is through this memory of your mother. Obviously your mother knew your pen would be your instrument.
I'm not sure about that, Gloria. Several months before she passed, she gave me a book, Serendipity by J Wallace Hamilton, in which she wrote she was unable to resist circling the following:
You can lead a horse to water,
But you cannot make him drink.
You can send your boy to college,
But you cannot make him think.
Your comment will lead me to re-read the book, which was, per her inscription, a "delayed Lenten gift".
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